A Letter To My Daughter - Aged 11

Last night I finished ‘The Good Place’ on Netflix and then watched ‘2 Hearts’…. Needless to say I was an emotional wreck lol.

I got into bed and felt called to write in a book I’ve got for Isla. I write in it few and far between, maybe once a year, and started when she was five. But I just had to write in it last night and I love what came out.

Feeling like it’s wisdom I just need her to know, and if anything was to ever happen to me, that I have told her how proud I am and all the little tips and tricks I have learnt along the way. 

I won’t go out of my way to show Isla, as first of all this stuff is big, and she needs to figure out life on her own for a bit, but the information is there for her when the time is right and she starts searching for answers.

I wanted to share on my website though as the information is the gold I have learnt along my healing and self development spiritual path, so I wanted to share with anyone that wants to read it too. 

Sending you all much love. xx


I have left out some of what I wrote, as it is for Isla. It doesn’t feel right to share my heart felt words that were channeled for her with the world, but the gold is below for all to know. Enjoy.


✨ I hope you are in touch with your magic.

✨I hope you own how powerful you are as a human being.

✨I hope all of my ‘Woo Woo’ has rubbed off on you, and you know that the only person you have to worry about what they say about you, is yourself.

✨Be kind to yourself.

✨Love yourself.

✨Practice Ho'oponopono every day.

“I'm sorry
Please forgive me
Thank you
I love you”

The most powerful prayer I've come across to date.

✨I hope you know that “hurt people, hurt people” and whatever anyone says to you in a horrible way is about them NOT you. And vice versa. If you are jealous of others, or or mean, I hope you stop and ask yourself why are you feeling the way you do?

I hope you check in and ask yourself:
💖What is this person triggering in me?
💖What about this person/their life is making me jealous/envious? 

On this last one, I learned that when we are jealous of someone else it is because they are mirroring back to us our own untapped potential. So it's an invitation to go within and find out what dreams or desires are begging to come out.

✨I hope you always call upon your unseen guides and spirit team for support, even if you ever get to a place of doubt. Ask them anyway, and be open to their signs.

✨Look for magic everywhere and you will find magic everywhere.

✨No one else can make you whole, as you are whole already!

✨If you ever feel alone or lonely, please know, feel, sense and remember that you are an infinite being of light and love of God/The Universe's creation. You are source energy, just like everyone else. So you are never alone, as you are the whole Universe in a beautiful, loving meat suit (a.k.a. body) Haha!

✨I hope you know that your thoughts attract your reality. So think happy thoughts, think positive, expect the magical and unexpected.

✨Practice gratitude - The Magic!!

What are you grateful for? Not “I don't have this or that.” Be grateful for what you do have, and more flow to you every day.

✨Know the Universe is abundant. There is NO lack! If your mind is telling you there isn't enough money/love/time etc, then tell your mind where to go! Tell it you have more than enough money/time/love.

✨Remember you are a child of God and The Universe (same thing) but you are also Human. You came here as a soul, a spiritual being, to experience life, a human reality.
So feel your feelings. Move your body. Enjoy your body. Express yourself in any way you know how, at any time, as LOUD as you like. Do the shadow work a.k.a. inner work, inner child healing, inner teenager healing, mothering your inner child or teen (if you need to).

✨All in all, have your own back. Don't put all your magic and light and someone else's hands, for them to take it from you.  What I mean is, be your own cheerleader. Don't allow others to dictate how you live your life, or tell you how to feel/act or what to do/be.

NOT EVEN ME!

You are the sun, the sky, the stars and the moon, and you don't need anyone else to validate that for you.

✨Love yourself above all else. You're the only one you have with you your whole life, and you're the longest relationship you'll ever have. Other loves come and go but you are forever. So love yourself every day, in every way.

As we always say: “I don’t care what you say, I love you more every day!” I love you my girly.

Love Mum xxx

❤️❤️❤️


Jenny Fjurns-Giles

Creative entrepreneur with expertise in art, coaching, and workshops. 12+ years’ experience helping others unlock creativity, foster growth, and align with their purpose.

https://www.freedomrising.co.uk
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